A child I used to sneak batman comics from my Uncles collection of superhero comics. I skipped through the spiderman section… all of the others were not a hit with me … But Batman was my absolute favourite…The car the the cool black outfit the getting the bad guys by hanging around with the badContinue reading “Batman of course …”
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Emotional Abuse Versus Conflict: What Separates Them?
Emotional abuse versus conflict can look similar in tense moments. Learn the signs, why patterns matter, and how safety changes the response for families.
Worst is definitely Luton… Best read on…
Luton airport is without one shadow of a doubt the worst airport for staffing I have every been to. I actually feel sad for the owners. Its location is great, its facilities smart, but the staff were absolutely abysmal. The police were rude, the checkin staff awful and NEVER again !!!!!… The best is handsContinue reading “Worst is definitely Luton… Best read on…”
Child Safety Begins Where Silence Is Broken
Child safety requires more than rules and routines: adults who listen, act and refuse silence around harm at home, school and beyond, for every child.
How to Rebuild Confidence After Family Abuse
Learn how to rebuild confidence after family abuse with safety, truth, boundaries and support that respects your pace, dignity and lived experience every day.
Child Safeguarding Case Studies: What They Reveal
Child safeguarding case studies show how silence, disbelief and missed action endanger children – and what accountable protection looks like for families.
People pleasing…
The women in my family were inherently carers and people pleasers… This meant that they were charming but vulnerable to abuse… My mothers example during my formative years was one of the feminist generation. She worked full time and ran a home. She took a partner, but never married or lived full time with anyone.Continue reading “People pleasing…”
Brought me a glass of water during torture…
In England there was a British military decision to withdraw access to full medical care…This was at a juncture when I had discovered that my entire medical intervention for psychotropic medications was to try and hide and prevent evidence being given about the serious and sustained domestic violence I had suffered. This latterly was discoveredContinue reading “Brought me a glass of water during torture…”
Humility …
During my time in England In the cities are many people with no where safe to stay. Homeless. These people often have maybe one or two life events that cause them to lose their homes. Followers of the blog know that my daughters like tens of thousands of other children were murdered and the recordsContinue reading “Humility …”
What Makes Disclosure Believable After Abuse?
What makes disclosure believable? Learn why trauma, timing and imperfect memory do not cancel a survivor’s truth, and what responsible listening requires.