Child safety requires more than rules and routines: adults who listen, act and refuse silence around harm at home, school and beyond, for every child.
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How to Rebuild Confidence After Family Abuse
Learn how to rebuild confidence after family abuse with safety, truth, boundaries and support that respects your pace, dignity and lived experience every day.
Child Safeguarding Case Studies: What They Reveal
Child safeguarding case studies show how silence, disbelief and missed action endanger children – and what accountable protection looks like for families.
People pleasing…
The women in my family were inherently carers and people pleasers… This meant that they were charming but vulnerable to abuse… My mothers example during my formative years was one of the feminist generation. She worked full time and ran a home. She took a partner, but never married or lived full time with anyone.Continue reading “People pleasing…”
Brought me a glass of water during torture…
In England there was a British military decision to withdraw access to full medical care…This was at a juncture when I had discovered that my entire medical intervention for psychotropic medications was to try and hide and prevent evidence being given about the serious and sustained domestic violence I had suffered. This latterly was discoveredContinue reading “Brought me a glass of water during torture…”
Humility …
During my time in England In the cities are many people with no where safe to stay. Homeless. These people often have maybe one or two life events that cause them to lose their homes. Followers of the blog know that my daughters like tens of thousands of other children were murdered and the recordsContinue reading “Humility …”
What Makes Disclosure Believable After Abuse?
What makes disclosure believable? Learn why trauma, timing and imperfect memory do not cancel a survivor’s truth, and what responsible listening requires.
Jane Austen, Murder and Mont Blanc pen …?
I wrote a presentation piece several years ago when I was banned from attending Univeristy in England. It detailed the academic suspician after analysis of her hair that she was murdered, possibky by her family, who then went on to profit from selling her books…This being an area of interest as everything Austen is toContinue reading “Jane Austen, Murder and Mont Blanc pen …?”
Just call me Batman …
Firstly no mistakes Batman is the character of choice. Keep gender out of it. I don’t want to be the gender side kick, give me the fast car the dual identity and I am there… fighting crime and doing so in the night, whilst during the day taking part in the usual corporate world …Continue reading “Just call me Batman …”
When Should Safeguarding Escalate? Act Before Harm Grows
When should safeguarding escalate? Learn how to recognise risk, respond to disclosures and act firmly to protect children and adults from further harm.